The Best Masturbation Toys for Men
From wands to lipstick vibrators to clitoral stimulators, it seems like women have the cream of the crop when it comes to sex toys. But everyone likes pleasure, and it can sometimes feel like men are left out in the wide world of sex toys. Many people might be surprised that sex toys for men even exist at all.
But exist they do, and we’re getting into them here! We’re talking textured masturbation sleeves, anal plugs with rotating beads, multi-function prostate, perineum, and testicle massagers. There’s even an egg with stretch capabilities you need to see to believe.
As you’ll find out in our comprehensive guide below, men’s toys have definitely gotten more and more creative in recent years, and we’re loving the sex-positive approach toward new experiences and sensations. Since sexuality is highly personal, we’ve even broken the toys down into different categories to help you narrow your search.
Whether your masturbation is feeling a bit stale or you want to try something new with your partner, we’ve got just the toys to get you started. Once you start taking advantage of them, you'll wonder why you never did before.
The Best Original Masturbator
Main Squeeze Series by Doc Johnson
If there is anything on a cishet man’s mind, it’s pussy. So what could be a better toy than a pussy you can carry around? This male self-pleasure toy is designed as a discreet coffee tumbler with a comfortable outer grip, but unscrew the end cap and you’ll find a lifelike vagina waiting to be penetrated. Made of Doc Johnson’s patented ULTRASKYN TPE, these strokers look as real as it gets; some are even molded directly from the bodies of your favorite pornstars! Each Main Squeeze masturbator features a unique internal texture, along with squeezable magnetic side plates to adjust pressure and a twist-open top to adjust suction.
The Best Blowjob Simulator
Hummer BJ Machine by VēDO
One of the best parts about a BJ is the hands-free experience; just sit back and let someone else do the work while you enjoy the pleasure. So how do you get that sensation when you’re solo? Meet the Hummer.
The Hummer is a fully-automatic, super-powerful suction masturbator boasting 109 suction impulses per minute. With 5 intensity levels and 5 speeds, there are 25 ways for this innovative machine to suck you off, whether you want it slow and sensuous or fast and forceful. Just set it and watch; that’s it! And because of its plug-in capabilities, there’s no chance of it shutting off when you’re about to climax.
The Best Disposable Masturbator
Tenga EGG Hard Boiled and Regular Variety Packs
If thrusting your junk into a realistic vagina in a tube doesn’t strike your fancy, which is fair, consider the Tenga EGG series. At first sight, an egg might not be the most arousing of options, but once you crack it open, you might be a little more intrigued. Made from material so silky you have to feel it to really appreciate it, the egg has a small hole where you’ll find a small packet of lube to get things perfectly slippery. Simply empty the lube into the egg and add a little to the outer rim for ease, then slip the sleeve over your head for a different kind of handjob experience. The egg stretches all the way from tip to base over a penis of any length or girth. There are a variety of eggs to try out, all promising different interior sensations with names like “Thunder” and “Tornado.” As soon as you've finished, the egg can be tossed, and with a price point at a little under $7 an egg, you can try out a few without breaking the bank.
The Best Prostate Massager
Vector by We-Vibe
We love the We-Vibe Vector because of its unique C-shape design and the sensations it delivers to both your prostate and perineum. While many massagers aim for internal P-spot stimulation alone, pressure on the perineum massages it from the outside at the same time! The flexible base of the Vector adapts to your body, delivering shuddering pleasure to both areas, which can result in stronger orgasms. And because it can be controlled with a wireless remote or through Bluetooth via the We-Vibe app, it’s pretty close to a hands-free experience.
The Best Toy for Stamina Training
Doc Johnson Main Squeeze Endurance Trainer
Want your sexual escapades to last longer and longer? Then consider training long and hard with the Main Squeeze Endurance Trainer from Doc Johnson. This stamina-training stroker is designed to replicate the sensations of intercourse with its lifelike material and intensely sensational internal ribbing, so you can continue to build your stamina over time. Use this toy over and over again to help improve your performance and techniques as well as heighten and intensify orgasms, because practice makes perfect, after all.
The Most Discreet Masturbator
Sir Richard’s CONTROL Intimate Therapy by Pipedream
Masturbator sex toys aren’t always clandestine with their large size and realistic designs. This toy, however, hides in plain sight! The Intimate Therapy series from Sir Richard’s CONTROL by Pipedream will sit comfortably on your shower rack because it looks like a shampoo bottle. The clever design will go unnoticed by a passing eye, but unscrew the bottom to reveal a Fanta Flesh TPE vagina, mouth, or anus to enter. Squeezable like a shampoo bottle, you can adjust the pressure, and even pop open the flip cap to adjust suction.
The Best Bang for Your Buck
Cyberskin Vulcan Ass Stroker w/ Warming Lube by Topco
If you’re introducing strokers to your jerk box for the first time but are unsure of which one to get, the Cyberskin Vulcan Ass Stroker is a great place to start. Not only does this toy feel as close to a butthole as the real thing, but it comes at a much more affordable price point than some of the other strokers on the market. Soft, lifelike outer lips start off the experience, and the ribbed internal sleeve pleasurably stimulates with movement like the real deal. To top it off, a warming lube heats with friction for an extra realistic feel. It’s an ideal toy for practicing technique or for everyday use. Also available in Pussy and Mouth!
The Best Toy for Rimming
A-Play Rimmer Experienced by Doc Johnson
Designed with rotating beads that spin at the anchor while vibrations hum inside you, the Rippled plug is by no means your average butt plug. With 7 vibration modes and 7 swirling patterns, the stem of this plug massages the opening of your anus with rotating beads, simulating the feeling of analingus or “rimming.” The sizeable plug additionally arouses internally for P-spot massage along with outer teasing. While you can certainly use this toy with the help of a partner, an optional remote control makes solo or partnered play easy.
The Best Toy for Edging
CONTROL Vibrating Edging Trainer by Sir Richard’s
If you’re looking for the best edging experience, or if you’re entirely new to it altogether, you’re going to want to try the CONTROL Vibrating Edging Trainer by Sir Richard’s. This toy is designed for solo or partnered stimulation. It works by wrapping the shaft with flexible, textured silicone wings that extend from a bullet that delivers powerful vibrations to your poker. The wings’ nubbed surface intensifies pleasure from small points, allowing it to purposefully delay orgasm in order to increase stamina. The focused vibrations additionally help those with erectile dysfunction by encouraging healthy blood flow to the penis.
The Most Affordable Prostate Massager
Anal Fantasy Classix Prostate Stimulator by Pipedream
Designed for both internal and external stimulation, the P-Rock is a prostate massager that kneads internally while pressing against the perineum externally for P-spot pleasure from two sides. With bulbous edges and a sturdy ABS build, the manually controlled prostate stimulator tickles the anus as it enters and its curved handle easily maneuvers the P-spot-targeting internal head and the upward-curving perineum massager. Simple design and multiple areas of stimulation make this anal sex toy a great bang for your buck. Did we mention it also comes with a 5 step prep kit to help you ease in?
The Best P-Spot Dildo
Kink’s Perfect P-Spot Cock by Doc Johnson
If bigger is better, you can be assured the best P-spot dildo is massive. This big daddy measures 9 inches long and 2 inches wide, going well past deep enough to reach the prostate and making for lots of surface area to please every side of your ass. Dual-density design makes this TPE dildo firm, yet flexible with a pliable surface highly detailed to look like a big, hard, throbbing cock. The removable Vac-U-Lock suction cup makes this dildo strap-on compatible with multiple styles of harness.
The Best Vibrating Stroker
Torpedo Vibrating Stroker by VēDO
Love the idea of a stroker, but want a little something more? Like other standard strokers, the VēDO Torpedo has an ultra-textured sleeve for heightened sensations, but it also has three motors to deliver intense vibrations throughout the whole masturbator to add an extra layer of pleasure to the experience. With 10 vibration modes from its triple motor setup, VēDO claims this stroker is “not for the faint of heart.” And for those who love a good shower stroke, you can go wild with your fantasies thanks to its fully submersible design, while night strokers can revel in the added glow-in-the-dark effects.
The Vibed Staff Pick
Tenga Spinner Series
Tenga’s Spinner series continues the Japanese innovators’ tradition of unique and clever designs by introducing an automatic twisting sensation with every pull of this masturbator toy. An internal coil, visible through the translucent elastomer material, stretches and recoils with each tug of the end, making the masturbator automatically spin! Your penis will be caught in a tornado of sensation from the twirling internal textures, making for a one-of-a-kind stroke!
In conclusion
The “if it’s not broke, don’t fix it” mentality feels stale in our sex-positive world, and men deserve an upgrade from Lubriderm and tissues if they so desire! As you can see from our guide, there is an increasing amount of options for men depending on preference, and it’s a trend we don’t see going anywhere soon. So, whether you want to enhance your BJ experience or maybe try prostate stimulation for the first time, there is a toy for everyone. Remember, there’s no right or wrong answer when it comes to choosing sex toys. Everyone loves pleasure.